How does a person become controlling? It is basically a method of coping with the anxiety they feel beginning very early in life. Some had parentswho couldn’t quite fulfill their role as strong caregivers and seemed to be weak or incapable.
A child in this situation, as early as age 3, may begin to prop up their parents and become a little adult very early on. If the stress continues, fear increases and the use of attempts to control what they can, becomes compulsive and unconscious. It is more likely to happen with children who are helpers, and/or leaders by nature, often first born boys or girls feel proud of themselves for helping and it is encouraged or reinforced by parents and other influential adults. They may also have a tendency toward anxiety, worry and perfectionism which will only make it worse.
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This Snake Juice is basically rat poison. Everybody’s wasted.
I love those nights when everyone gets hammered.
(via loveyourchaos)
Obsessed with this shit right now. I am working so hard and it’s paying off. I never sleep right and sometimes I don’t have time to eat. I’m making money, money like my family has never seen.
I want to be someone.
You think you’re so gangster…you think you’re so punk rock. You’re shit.
Use your brain to fuck the system that fucked you. Be better. Make money. Do something. Prove that the system is shit and you can beat it.
You’re frying your brain with drugs. That’s so lame.
